Something from nothing?
I have been reading quite a bit about this. One scientist said, “to ask what was before the BB is like asking what is north of the North Pole.” It is a question without an answer.
I prefer the statements made by Sean Carroll, a cosmologist and physics professor at the California Institute of Technology in this regard: “We just don’t know! That point in time when the BB started is the end of our knowledge.” The reason for this statement is that scientists don’t have the technology to prove anything else beyond this point.
Other scientists say the BB was not the beginning. Our universe started out of a black hole of a previous universe. Who knows? No one could yet prove it. The point I want to make is that we CAN accept that we don’t have all the answers. Not in the BB case and not in everyday matters.
Is this not true of each new study, experience, emotion or inter-personal relationship?
If we are willing to say we don’t have all the answers, is it not a bit like magic/wonder when something great is coming from it?
In our marriage, work, or play we mix our unique characteristics with the “the thing.” It is like having black coffee and then slowly you stir cream into it. It is two very different ingredients that combine into one tasty outcome. The two ingredients give us something new and special. (Yum, I love coffee and cream!)
Instead of wrestling with questions we cannot answer to anyone’s satisfaction, why not use what we have inside of us to create something new that did not exist before. You mix the totally of you, with the object, say, of being a member of a club. This is better than creating art. It is in the realm of wonder/magic. Your mixed “potion” will be unique.
I dare you… create something wondrous. With you as the main ingredient. What will you get? I bet it will be something special in a very good way. Stop asking questions that can’t be answered.
These questions are a block between you and something spectacular.
Even if it blows up (BB) it can still shake your universe and secure a beautiful outcome.
I experienced that after my first husband died. My universe was shaken to its core. It was my black hole. Then I took the “cards” and with it, I created a new life for me and my two boys. It is better than before.
From experience, I can say be open and let it happen.
Are you willing to do what Nike said, “Just do it!”


So true, Magda. Sugar dissolves in water to create a syrup. Life is not perfect, it is a beautiful mess. One can work wonders with what one has by "Just doing it!"
ReplyDeleteThat is a beautiful analogy of water, sugar and its syrup outcome. It is so applicable to life. I have experienced more than one Big Bang in my life. I am so glad finding good out of bad is part of the human condition.
DeleteThanks for the reminder that we don't need to know everything to be happy. I get stuck in trying to find answers to make perfect sense of the world, but it's important to remember not to procrastinate too much.
ReplyDeleteYes Raymond. Sometimes I feel like I miss 20-30 years of my life. It just went so fast. We waste so much time...trying, struggling. Sometimes is is good to remember that life as Operah Winfrey said is not happening to us, but FOR us.
DeleteThese are big questions and require me to dig deeper into my soul to answer sincerely. I was reminded today by my child that being wired differently (brain, persona and behaviour) should not be a barrier to making our own way in the world. I'm not crazy - I'm just different! Living in a 'different and dysfunctional' family is challenging every single day! The outcomes include new learning about each other at every encounter, and it sure does prevent boredom and complacency settling in!
ReplyDeleteYou have a clever child to come up with that answer Carole. What is crazy and what is normal? Most of my life I felt like the outsider in my family. Ha-ha, we all have a strong family resemblance. I know I am not adopted when I look at my siblings. My wiring is very different to theirs. Not better, not worse, not any thing else, but different. Therefore I need to stand back and give them their space. In that, I am loving myself (at last!) and giving myself the space I need. Strange ...it is what it is.
DeleteWonderful perspective Magda. I love contemplating the unknown, I thrive in the mysteries of the universe and I like to create (write & speak) about my perspectives on those mysteries,. I'll take both the unknown and the creative force and join the ranks of Einstein and Galileo and be brave enough to speak my truth, again, and again, and again. I agree with you, "create something wondrous. With you as the main ingredient. " Magic happens through our creative life force.
ReplyDeleteA part of me knew we are soul mates. Therefore I want to challenge you to be your own person even in your Advanced meetings. We can Zoom on this point. I have noticed something that I would like to share with you. It is all good, no criticism, only a question. “My truth,” you say. That is an excellent starting, middle and end point. I like it. I always ask “please don’t put me in a box.” I understand what you say.
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